Law Of Attraction To Get Your Ex Back? – Yes You can!

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Is it wrong to seek perfection when looking for a lover?

In my opinion, it’s not wrong at all. Because we all have a different idea of perfect.

For most ordinary people, perfect doesn’t mean a stunning male or female model.

Most people just want someone compatible with them.

Somebody who can make you happy.

So yes I think it’s perfectly alright to seek the perfect person for YOU.

This means that you have to know what you want in a partner. You can choose what perfect means for you.

Perfect to you may be someone who is an intelligent intellectual, but also has a love of the outdoors.

For another person, it may be a music lover who is a foodie. It could be anything really.

Many of you will have certain physical characteristics, that are a must in an ideal partner.

But as you change over time, you will find this less important.

So How Do You Meet This Perfect Lover?

Well, its simple.

You know you desire to meet someone with common interests, and a common outlook on life.

So you need to put yourself into situations with other like-minded people.

Maybe your really into mountain biking. Then you need to surround yourself with other mountain bikers. Join a group that goes on rides together. You could very well, meet the man or woman of your dreams.

It is simple; we always interact with people with common interests.

Bringing A Metaphysical Approach:

For some of you who have a spiritual interest like me. You may be a practitioner of the law of attraction.

I view reality as a mirror. We are constantly having our beliefs reflected back on us.

So we will attract people into our lives like us. So why not use the law of attraction to attract the perfect mate?

For many of you, you may be wondering if you can use the law of attraction to attract a specific person already in your life. Make sure you check out this article to find out more.

Or check out this video discussing the possibility here.

But it makes sense doesn’t it?

Think of all the people in your life? They reflect a part of yourself if you’re truly honest.

Think of all the people in successful relationships in your life. They all are very similar in many respects, and most likely met as a result of friends or common interests.

It’s food for thought.

Just remember, it is ok to seek perfection … YOUR idea of perfection!

Manifesting Your Ex Back With Thoughts & Emotions

So what is the deal with manifesting?

Is it your thoughts that create, or is it your feelings, or both?

Well there is no correct answer or no hard an fast rule. What you experience and how you manifest is purely up to you!

The best advice I learnt when I was trying to manifest a lover back was from this website. The advice being, that if something felt good for you, it is the right path. But what feels right to you, may not feel right to someone else.

Thought, Emotions, Or Both?

Thoughts And Emotions

I can only go from my experience, but what has worked out the best for me, is to aim for the feelings/emotions that you’re looking for. Thoughts are a tool simply to help you create that emotion.

I have struggled with getting my head around manifestation for years, and for years I kept trying to think positive thoughts. I had some success, but not without a lot of trouble.

Then I discovered the Abraham-Hicks work, combined with the wonderful Calm Down Mind website, and everything became a lot clearer.

I came to realize that thoughts are simply a manifestation too! This was a massive breaking point in understanding for me.

My thoughts are a manifestation of my inner vibration. Yes my thoughts will respond to things happening externally, but only in the context of my perspective and vibration.

So naturally something “negative” would happen in my life. Instantly I would desire something else in that very moment.

Yet if I tried to keep my mind on that which I desired, it was a real struggle!

I would for ever be thinking about what I don’t want, and thinking about what I do want from the mindset of not having it yet. So guess what, the law of attraction gave me more of that.

On top of that, the momentum and intensity of my thoughts and emotions were too strong. So my mind would run off into a negative story, along with my emotions. This would overwhelm my awareness, and I would not even be conscious of what I was thinking.

It was all just happening.

So I took the time to build my awareness, and allow the momentum of my mind to die down. This allowed me to then stay conscious of my thinking, and allow me to work with my thoughts.

Think about it … how many times have you been trying to implement a new manifesting technique into your life, but you always forget to do it! You find yourself too wrapped up in your mind and the negative reality in front of you.

So with the ability to work with my thoughts, I started diving further into the Abraham teachings.

I realized this was all about vibration, which was responding to our feelings.

This when every aspect of my life turned around. Everything in my life become simply awesome!

So for example, if I wanted to lose weight, I couldn’t just say affirmations or permanently think of myself as thin. My reality, mind and emotions just wouldn’t let me make that jump.

So I needed to sooth my feelings and emotions on the topic. This is how you change your vibrations, then your thoughts, then ultimately your reality.

You do this by making peace with where you are. You find the positive aspects of where you are now, and build from there. In each moment you gently shift into better and better feeling thoughts. You keep telling a better feeling story about your weight, bit by bit.

Because when you’re feeling good, you’re aligned with your inner being and your desire.

Each day you find you will feel a little better, then more positive thoughts will come in. Suddenly you find yourself excited and bursting with energy to go and do some exercise. Your dietary choices improve naturally.

Suddenly you have released a ton of weight. The process was fast, simple and fun.

This is conscious creating at its best!

SO … In my opinion, it goes vibration -> feelings/emotions -> thoughts.

Why Do Men Pull Away When They’re Falling In Love?

Relationships can be so complicated, especially for the woman who doesn’t understand men. Everything seems to be going along smoothly when suddenly, he begins to pull away.

In an effort to hang on to him, she will make every effort to draw him closer which will stifle him and may make matters more complicated.

The truth here isn’t that when men pull away, he’s falling in love, and he’s analyzing every angle to see if this is really where he wants to be.

Along with love, comes a lot of responsibility. Men are supposed to support women and love her through thick and thin. It can be heart-wrenching for her to feel like she’s in limbo and no amount of explaining this to him is going to help in fact, it can actually make it worse. Continue reading “Why Do Men Pull Away When They’re Falling In Love?”